The Samji family was established
in the small town of Satudar in the state of Kathiawar.
There were only 4-5 Ismaili families, mainly our families. The
rest of the
population was
mainly Hindus and Luhana.
Jinnah Bapa (1815-1898) and Jiribai (1820-1915) had a son, Samji, with whom
we begin this narration. Samji Bapa (1864-1948) used to wake up at 3 a.m. regularly
and go to Jamatkhana to clean the Jamatkhana, turn on the lamps and make the
tea. He never drank tea in his life, but would make it for others. After bandagi
and prayers, he would go for a walk to check on the crops of nearby farmers
and
exchange news. While walking he would chew on some "Kakechia" and "inderju" (bitter
roots which are very good for your health). He would then brush with "bavar
nu datan" (a stem with strands with natural substances good for your teeth)
and he would wash his face, hands and legs at a river and go home. He would return
home at 7 a.m. and wake up the rest of the family. The family would get ready
and assemble for breakfast. This consisted of yoghurt (from milk produced by
the family's two buffaloes) and flour chapati. In winter, it was mandatory for
each
person to eat two ladus made from "arrad" (a kind of bean), saffron
and ghee.
Lunch was at approximately 12.30 p.m. and consisted of curries ("dal"), "rotio".
hand crushed onion and pickles.
The children attended the small village school
for 5 to 6 years and later at somebody's house in a nearby
village to learn English. On completion of formal
schooling, at the age of 11, the boys started work in the family business
and the girls helped at home.
The business sold produce (flour, molasses, oil,
etc) and seeds, both wholesale and retail. When the rains
came and it was time to plant, farmers in the
area would buy seeds from Samji Bapa on credit. Repayment would take place
when the
crops came in and the farmers usually paid with crops, with a premium of
25-50% representing profit for Samji Bapa. Samji Bapa would also take the
some of the
crops, again on account, and allow the farmers to draw down on the account
for the remainder of the year with purchases of produce. There was, therefore,
little
exchange of money. The shop also sold clothes. He obtained goods for his
business on his visits to Dhoraji as part of his Jamati work. The Samji
Jinnah family
was considered to be financially very well off.
The house was made of cement and was considered
the best in Satudar. It had four rooms and the women in
the family maintained the household, including
tending
the two buffaloes and fetching water from the river in buckets. Water
for drinking was filtered and kept in a clay "matungi" (pot) to keep it cool.
Samji Bapa was a very religious man and was known in the state as very "Imandar".
He served the Jamat all his life and was appointed as President of the Kathiawar
Ismaili Council based in Dhoraji which comprised of eight districts. In those
days, there was only one Jamati institution, the Council, to look after Jamati
matters. He would go to the Council meetings on his horse riding eight miles
each way. He was very strict in requiring his family to attend Jamatkhana every
evening. If a child missed attending Jamatkhana without good reason, the child
could not have dinner with the rest of the family, but was made to eat separately.
This was considered a big punishment! He was generally patient with the children,
but would get angry if a mistake was made a second time if it had been corrected
previously. At the end of each month, Samji Bapa would prepare his accounts
in order to calculate his dasond. He would not drink milk or eat meat until
this
task was completed and his dasond was remitted.
He was very particular about how he was to be buried. When he was eighty
years old, he prepared,a trunk containing all the paraphernalia required
to conduct
a
funeral, including his "kafan". He carried this trunk around with him
on his travels just in case it was needed. He had a burial plot prepared in advance
because the ground was very rocky and it took a week to dig it. He went on to
lie in it and measure it for size. When he was advised that he should not tempt
fate, he laughed and said, "Surely that is the ultimate end and if it is
time
for me to go, let the grave close on me!" He made sure that all majalases
for him and his wife were performed while they were alive. He sent around a bus
to pick up all the dignitaries in the area for the majalas, brought in a waezeen
to deliver a waez, paid his dasond up to date with a plateful of new rupees and
organized a three day feast. Later, during Mawlana Sultan Mohamed Shah's padhramni,
he pledged mehmani and went for chanta. Mowla Bapa performed the chanta ceremony,
and then took the "kumb" of holy water and poured it over Samji Bapa
thoroughly drenching his pagri and clothes! Samji Sapa was overjoyed. He felt
he was thoroughly pure!
India was under British rule and there was peace
in the area. Relationships between the various communities
were very cordial and there was no friction
between Hindus
and Muslims. The elders in the Hindu community would come to Samji
Bapa every couple of months to seek his help in tying a "pagri" (turban); he was
very proficient at tying them! This turban would contain a "suri" (nut
cracker) and "sopari" (beetle nut). When the pagri became loose,
the elder would wash it and come to lunch at Samji Bapa's after which the pagd
would
be redone. Samji Bapa's second wife, Motibai (1878-1946), was a very gentle
woman. The town women turned to her for help and she distributed medical supplies
(balm
oil, wicks, quinine, etc.) to those in need. In 1946, the day before she died,
she informed Alibhai, her son, to be ready for her funeral the following day.
Alibhai laughed it off, but she died the following day.
Samji Bapa's father (Jinnah) and mother (Jivibai) lived in the same
household. Some anecdotes: Jivibai's eyesight was very poor and the
children took
her by the hand to Jamatkhana everyday, for which they received lots
of d'ua.
Jinnah Bapa was also very spiritual. One day, he called the family
together and said
that the time had come for his spirit to join with Allah. He asked
for "siro" to
be made which he ate and then prayed for peace and well being of his family
and future descendants. He then lay down on his bed and covered himself with
a blanket.
He advised the family to return in an hour. When they did, they found that
he had passed away.
Samji Bapa had five children through his first wife, Mithibai: Habib
(1884-1937), Karmaii (1890-1950), Mongibai (1892-1976), Manibai (1897-1972)
and Gulamhussein
(1899-1992). When Mithibai died, Samji Bapa married Motibai who also
had five children: Jenabai (1 906- 1961), Janmohamed (1909-present),
Rehmatbai
(1912-1938),
Alibhai (1915-1992) and Hassanali (1919-present). At the beginning
of this century, lsmailis were starting to move to East Africa heeding
Farmans
made by Mawlana
Sultan Mohamed Shah.
Habib Bapa married Rehmatbai
(1887-1970) in 1900. Leaving his young bride at home, he emigrated
to Tanganyika where he served an apprenticeship
with the
business of Jamal Walji in Bagamoyo. In 1909, having finished his
apprenticeship, he moved
to Dar-es-salaam and opened his own business. His brother-in-law,
Jivraj Kachra (husband of Mongibai) joined him in the wholesale
business called "Habib & Jivraj". They imported textiles
and produce from Jiwraj Manji in India and also German goods which
they distributed
in Dar-es-salaam
and in the interior. In 1913, Habib went to India for business
and became stranded there over the course of the First World War.
Karmali
Bapa and Gulamhussein
Bapa subsequently joined him on his return to Dar-es-salaam. Jivrai's
brothers also
came over from India about this time, and the two partners decided
to open separate businesses.
Habib and Rehmat had six children, Khatija (1910-1969), Shamshudin
(1913-1950), Fatehaly (1915-1952), Akber (1917-1979), Husseinaly(1920-present)
and
Jafferaly (1921-1975). They were born in Dar-es-salaam except for
Shamshudin and
Fatehaly, who were born in India during the time Habib Sapa was
stranded there. Shamshudin
and Fatehaly joined the family business after the usual seven years
of education, while Akber, Hussein and Jafferaly studied until
Junior Cambridge.
As Habib
Bapa's children joined the business, Karmaii Bapa opened his own
business and brought
over Janmohamed Bapa in 1929 to help him. Habib was the "Mota Bhai" of
the expanding family. By this time, there were 4,000 Ismailis in Dar-es-salaam.
Tanganyika was under German rule until 1918, and was a British Protectorate after
the First World War. Law and order was maintained by them and life and property
were very secure. Electricity came to Daressalaam fairly early on during the
British time, but running water came much later. Water was sold by the Africans
in tin cans carried on a pole called "zega zega".
Those I have interviewed all describe Habib Bapa as a gentleman, somebody
who loved people, was always very kind and would go out of his way
to help them.
They say that they cannot find anybody who can measure up to his standards
and that his early death at the age of fifty three was an unimaginable
loss not only
to his family and Jamat, but also to the wider community amongst whom
he was greatly respected. It was very common to find total strangers
putting
up at his
home. There was a big gallery where mattresses were laid out, and customers,
guests and people who needed help could always avail themselves of
a mattress.
His life style was very simple
and regular. After morning prayers, he would have just one cup
of tea and go to work at his business
at 5.30
a.m. At
12-30 p.m.
he would collect 10-15 customers and take them home for lunch.
If for some reason, there were too few people he would complain
that
he would
not enjoy
the food
and he would invite people he met on the street on his way
home so that he had a full table of guests. Lunch was followed
by
a nap.
At 4 p.m.
he would
attend
a club to play cards and then go to Jamatkhana. After Jamatkhana,
he would have dinner, again with several guests. Rehmatbai
would bring
his "patu" (pan
box) after each meal; he was very fond of pan and making pan was almost a ritual
with him. If any mail had arrived from the family in India, he would read out
the letter after dinner and share the news with his family. Such letters were
very precious and were read with appropriate solemnness. He was also fond of
singing "geet" and could often be heard singing while
resting in the gallery.
He served as Baytul Khayal Mukhi and Jamati Mukhi and as Council Honorary
Secretary. While Jamati Mukhi in 1927-1929, with Hussein Nasser Shariff
as Kamadia, he worked
on the fund-raising and construction of the Darkhana in Dar-es-salaam,
which opened in 1930. In those days, when Holy Talika were received,
the Jamatbhai
would go round town ringing a bell and announcing ( in the fashion
of a town crier) that the Jamat should attend Jamatkhana for evening
prayers
to receive
the Talika. In addition, an Ismaili flag was raised on our building
which was one of very few double storey houses in town.
Any person starting out in business was sure to obtain credit, contacts
and advice from him. He took great pride in other people succeeding.
People had
businesses
which were financed entirely by him, without any promissory notes,
mortgages or terms of payment. This led to complications when he died
in 1937.
He was visiting Bombay for medical treatment, and his father Samji
Bapa had
travelled
from Satudar
to be with him. Habib Bapa, who suffered from diabetes, was very ill
and he wrote letters to all his family and also gave a power of attorney
to
Rehmatbai, Janmohamed
Bapa, Jivraj Kachra, Hussein Nasser Shariff and Zaver Karsan. His last
instructions were that the trustees should look after the children
and that they should
not worry that his customers, who owed the business significant amounts,
would walk
away from the debts. Right up till the end he had complete faith in
the essential goodness in people.
Rehmathai, was the eldest daughter
of Karsan Bapa (1870-1943) and Dhanbai, born in Khirosara (population
about 700) in the
state
of Rajkot. Karsan
Bapa was "Kamdar'
(aide) to the Prince who had jurisdiction over a dozen villages.
He was very particular about his dressing; he was always
immaculately dressed. Satudar
and Khirosara were only about 25 miles apart. The Samji and
Karsan families being
prominent in their area knew each other. One day Dhanbai
was brushing Rehmat's hair when they heard a band approaching
their
house. The
13 year old Rehmat
ran to the window to observe the band; it was then that she
was informed that the
procession was on account of her wedding to Habib Bapa!
Rehmatbai, even as a very young wife, was a very caring,
family oriented person. Habib Bapa, as the eldest brother
in a family
of ten siblings,
was the father
figure in Dar-es- salaam. Rehmatbai was able to fulfil her
responsibilities so that the family remained united; she
was a mother to them.
She was very strict
in her upbringing of her children, and was a force to be
reckoned with if anybody did not behave exactly as they were
required.
If there was
noise in Jamatkhana,
a single glance from her would be enough to scare the person
into silence. Besides being a very strong willed person,
she was physically
very
strong. She exuded
an air of authority that none could challenge. It was only
with Habib Bapa that she showed a meek attitude. There was
a total
contrast in the way
they
disciplined
their family. While Habib Bapa was gentle with them and hardly
ever
raised his hand on them, Rehmatbai laid down the rules very
firmly and was not
averse to
physical punishment if they were flouted. At the same time,
she was a very fair person. She trained her daughters-in-law
on how
to manage
a
house,
care for the
needs of the family and cook well. She could not abide laziness;
it was quite all right to make mistakes as long as the person
tried. If at first the "rotia" were not round,
she encouraged them to keep practising. If they did not know
how
to sew, she taught
them patiently.
If, however, they were not keen to learn, you could be sure
that they would be told off in no uncertain manner. She was
a very
good seamstress herself;
she
made the
clothes for her family and also took consignments from other
people.
She was fond of some of the nicer things in life, but acted
as if she did not care for them. She liked to play cards
and "caram", but when she played
she
displayed an attitude of being a reluctant player. The children loved to "force" her
to play! No sacrifice was too great for her family. When
Alnoor, Akber's son, had polio and required hours of massage
and heat
treatment each day, she was
there to do it even though the heat affected her eyesight.
She was very traditional in
her outlook. Her attitude to life was that a woman had to be
dignified and supportive
to the
man. Men
had to eat
first; and while
they were eating she would make sure that she was present
to make sure everything
was in order and to encourage them to eat more. She was
always hospitable to the countless guest that Habib Bapa invited
home. The more guests
who attended
a meal, the more "barakat" they received. There were three main meals
during the day. Even breakfast was a main meal; there had to be parotha, mithai,
eggs, etc. For lunch and dinner, there had to be at least two curries, chapati
and rice and each meal had to be freshly cooked. The woman's life therefore revolved
round the kitchen. She and her daughters- in-law, in particular Shamshudin and
Fatehaly's wives, spent the major part of their day in the kitchen. Perhaps,
the only saving grace was that there was not that much washing up to do; the
food was served on big "sinias" and a group of
5 to 6 people would eat from each.
The men, of course, were not expected to do the washing up. The men
had more important things on their minds; they had the responsibility
to
earn a living
to support their families and protect them, and nothing was allowed
to detract from
this responsibility except for their club, sports and friends!
The Habib Samji families changed their countries of residence
two, and in some cases, three times, between 1905 and
1995. The family
moved from
India
in response
to Farmans made by Mawlana Sultan Mohamed Shah. Subsequently,
they moved from East Africa due to economic restrictions
and fear of
personal safety.
Fortunately,
the years spent in East Africa had prepared us well to
adapt to society in western countries. Although, there
have been
difficult times,
there has always
been the
resilience and the confidence that we would survive and
prosper. With Allah's grace and the prayers and services
of our ancestors,
we have
now established
a firm base in whichever countries we have chosen to
settle in, a base on which we can build for future generations
of the Habib
Samji
Kutumb. ©
Alnoor
Samji
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